How To Use Body Language To Flirt And Attract Woman

Posted by MAN on 06 September 2010

Any man who wants to succeed at attracting women needs to master flirting body language. The fact is that your body language communicates much more powerfully than words. Aside form it’s effectiveness, there are some other advantages to flirting body language.

To begin, using body language, you don’t really risk rejection. Second, a woman will feel more comfortable talking to a guy who’s already showing signs of being interested.Another advantage is that if she appears to return your interest chances are good that she will welcome your advance.

So how can you use body language signals to communicate to women that you’re a single guy who’s out to interact and have fun? Here are three tips about flirting body language.

Be Open

You don’t have to be an expert to read some body language. If you see a guy sitting hunched over at a bar by himself with his back to the room, what do you think? Most people get the idea that someone siting like that wants to be by himself and is probably in the process of drowning his sorrows by drinking. It’s unlikely anyone giving of that message is going to attract many women.

You have to face the crowd even if you’re alone.
An upright posture gives off the most positive message.  Make brief eye contact with women who happen to look your way. But don’t stare. Make eye contact for just a second or two, smile slightly, then look away.

If a woman passes by, smile and say hi.
One tip is to go to a bar to practice this type of body language without having any intent of actually approaching a woman. Not intending to talk to a woman makes it easier to be relaxed.

Wink
Winking may sound like something from another era, but there’s a reason it’s a classic flirting move. However you have to do it right or you can come off as a creep. As simple as it might be, too many men get it wrong (if they do it at all). The sequence that works great is to make eye contact, smile, wink and look away. This creates attraction, or at least curiosity, without seeming aggressive .

Winking is very helpful in situations where it’s difficult to approach a woman )for example,  she’s seated with her friends and you’re standing by the bar). Smiling and winking will effectively put you on her to-talk-to list for the night. For that matter, some women will come over to chat with you almost immediately

Show You’re Interested Without Saying a Word

Let’s face it: most people’s favorite subject is themselves and they respond positively to someone who is interested in them. Tilting your head as someone speaks indicates interest.  Use this to create attraction as a woman speaks to you.

By the way, it’s a very positive sign if she tilts her head as you’re speaking.

All these body language cues help when you want to establish rapport with women.

 

It’s also a good idea to know what the characteristics of an alpha male are. These are the Kind of men women find can’t resist.

And for a great seduction guide, be sure to check out this Guy Gets Girl Review. It tells you all about an extremely effective seduction manual.

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Good Date Ideas And That Good First Date

Posted by MAN on 05 September 2010

It can sometimes be hard to think up good date ideas as we all feel a little nervous, especially if its a first date. The secret is to try and be a unique with your date ideas showing that your not the same as other guys.  More often than not trying to create the absolute perfect date will leave you worrying about every last detail and stop you simply enjoying the date.  By having a plan in your head about what you are going to do it will make you more relaxed and confident during the date. This plan can be altered at any point during the date leaving you to then act on impulse and change location and atmosphere.

If you want your date night to be special choose something that not the old faithful of bars or coffee houses. For a more interesting date you could choose something like a theme park . These creative dates will give you both a sense of getting away from the norm allowing you to bond.

This isn’t to say that old classic date ideas don’t work but sometimes leaving the status quo makes things much more interesting. Its actions like these that your date will remember you for resulting in them wanting to see you again.
As well as good date ideas knowing what to say during the date can be a worry. Through those date nerves people are either very quiet or overly talkative to try and avoid that awkward silence. Personal questions should wait until later dates as general conversation will ensure your both not feeling uncomfortable. Keeping the conversation funny and staying away from the likes of religion is a good idea.  Another no go area is talking about previous relationships as the is a real atmosphere killer.  By just being yourself and giving some thought to creating good date ideas you’ll be on that second date in no time.

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