How to Become an Alpha Male and Attract Girls

Posted by MAN on 28 February 2010

Most men that write to me want to learn how to become an alpha male. You know what I’m saying. The man that’s always in control. The man who always takes charge of a situation. The man that catches the eye of every girl he runs across.
Some guys will put too much effort into out-doing other guys to show that they have “social status. “  They take every event as a chance to prove they are “cool” with how “alpha” they are.
You do not want to do what these jerks are doing.
These men are only failing miserably. They prove this by how much effort the put into showing how cool they are|.
The real alpha men are rock-solid and have nothing to prove. They do not waste time on how others see them because they know what they stand for. They adhere to their own beliefs and don’t put much stock in whether others think of them as “alpha. “
In order to become an alpha male, you need to check your ego at the door and just do your own thing. Quit the stupid stunts that others do to show off. Real alpha males don’t need to prove themselves to anybody because they’ve already learned to accept themselves.
Okay, now for the things you can use.
Take initiative when it comes to decisions. Quit passively waiting for others to decide things, just make decision for them. Even if the decision isn’t very major. Simply make a decision. A lot of people just do not like making decisions for other people and want someone else to do it. Plus you can skip those ten minute “I don’t know, what do you want?” conversations. Taking initiative is really simple, and you will be shocked at how often people will just follow you.
You should additionally begin planning the big picture of your life. What are your life goals?  Who or what are you becoming?  Alpha males have unshakable values. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself when you have to back up those values. However, you should not be too eager to get into a fight or start an argument. Adopt the belief that you can solve things calmly but don’t shy away from defending yourself if someone is antagonistic. After you get this, you will automatically become grounded and do all that “alpha male” stuff everyone else is telling you to do. Once you know what your values are there is no longer any reason to be uptight and tense.
Stop trying so hard to give the impression you are an “alpha male. Just work on pursuing your life goals and everything else in your life will naturally resolve itself. The True alpha males do not care about how everyone else sees them, so neither should you.

If you liked this article, please check out How to Become an Alpha Male, How to Impress Girls, and What Girls Find Attractive.

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