Getting A Girls Phone Number Is Essential If You Want To See Her Again
Getting a girls phone number is essential if you want to see her again
In the old days, when a man wanted to court a chick he might decide to ‘write her’ or make a formal call. In those days, before you could see her again you would need her address. Imagine asking a woman today, “hey it’s been great talking, so what’s your address?” That’s a bit confronting.
Luckily things are a lot less formal these days. Thank god all you need to ask for these days is her phone number. And, even easier than calling these days is sending a text. You can test the waters in a low risk way.
However it’s not always easy to get a girls phone phone number. So how do you do it?
Even though it’s a lot less risky than giving out your home address, women are pretty protective about their phone numbers. Getting her interested in you is important and so is getting her to trust you’re not a stalker/serial killer. Nonetheless there are techniques you can use to increase your chances of getting that all important phone didgets. I’ve included some tips below.
Just so you know, there is no magical words you can speak that will instantly get you a girls number. It’s not just the words you say, but how you build the attraction between you. Below are some tips for building attraction and get her to want to give you her number.
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Don’t be another unexciting guy
Try not to do the expected. Women, especially attractive women, are used to being approached by men. You don’t want to just blend in to the crowd. I’m sure you realise this rules out cheezy pick up lines or asking “so, do you come here often?” Boring!
Eye contact is important
It’s not hard, but men can get this wrong. Maybe you feel nervous and don’t realise you are coming off as untrustworthy. However, an unblinking stare is just creepy! Alternating unselfconciously between eye contact and watching her lips while she speaks is a great idea. Being attracted to her and interested in what she’s got to say will make this easy.
How not to ask… and still get her number
Be friendly and approachable… but a little unavailable.
So when you are having a graet conversation with this girl, definatley give her you’re full attention, engage her, spark her interest, but don’t hover too long. When the conversation is still going great say something like “Oh is that the time? It’s been great chatting but I better get back to my friends.” However as you walk away turn back as if it’s an afterthought, and say something like “Hey, do you have email?” You could also ask for her number here but sometimes email is an easier ‘in’ because it takes the pressure off and it’s a bit unexpected. Asking if she’s on Facebook is another option… its’ unlikely these days that she won’t be.
Ending the converstion while it’s still engaging will do two things: raise your status in her mind and give you an excuse to catch up another time.
Suggest you catch up another time to continue this great conversation
As you are apologising about having to leave, mention how much you’ve enjoyed your conversation and how much fun it would be to continue it one day. If she doesn’t immediately offer her didgets, ask “what would we need to do to continue this another time?” Note you are not asking for her phone number. She is the one offering her phone number, which later she will recall and think, wow, I must like that guy, he didn’t even ask and I gave him my phone number.
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